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Notes on running a home together.

Essays about mental load, the invisible work of a household, and what sharing it actually takes. Written slowly, published when there's something worth your attention.

Essay · 5 min read

The person who notices everything

Every home has one: the one who knows there are two onions left and that the school form is due Thursday. On the invisible job that doesn't show up on any list — because it is the list.

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